The word selfish has been condemned by one and all. Let’s take a look at it from a different perspective.
Selfish is looking at yourself, loving yourself first. What’s wrong in that ? If you cannot love yourself, you cannot love anyone else. Charity begins at home. One who does not know anything about him/herself, how can he even dare to understand others.
So, in my opinion it is good to be selfish sometimes. Wanting everything for oneself is different than the sense i am using selfish for. All i am saying is when you are on a spiritual path, start by being selfish. Try to know yourself. A little glimpse inwards and you will become radiant and then your actions will become benevolent and you will automatically be of service to others.
Enough for the day !
Celebrating Silence 
I just wrote an article about diving into love. It is better to be alone and figure out who we are then to be in a relationship and not really love that person. When we are by our own, we learn to be comfortable with ourselves and know what it is to love oneself. Great post and keep up the awesome writing 🙂
So that’s the case? Quite a retevalion that is.